Parents are a childs first teachers in life. So strict parenting makes for unhappy parents.

Strict Parents What S Wrong With Them

Children who have overly strict parents may display the following characteristics.

Strict parents can harm child's personality. Because this attitude is instilled in them early in life they are less likely to display behavior problems. By existential I mean the way that strict parenting affects kids basic life attitude basic life skills and general self image and sense of beingness. It always has repercussions.

However many use discipline and corrective measures in ways that irreparably damage or negatively impact a childs self-esteem. Those with strict parents and when parenting features threats and violent behavior he said. This depends on the parents character and the personality and capacity of every child.

Strict parents are consistent with discipline and children learn at a young age that consequences exist for inappropriate behavior. This makes the children doubtful about their decisions and could result in poor self-esteem. The problem is parents and kids dont always agree about which issues are.

Some children set out to meet their parents expectations and manage to do so through optimal performance. Threats brings scars on Parent-child bonding. They stop doing anything.

These types of parents lack the educational emotional and mental abilities to properly raise their children and. But rules about personal issues -- for example what instrument the child should take up -- may not be appropriate. A childs demeanor is also a reflection of how theyve been treated by their parents.

But as an exciting and quickly growing subfield of developmental psychology is finding not all kids are affected by good or bad parenting in the same way. Low self esteem and inferiority complexes because of the feeling that they are not being seen or heard. Rather babies enter the world with a temperament or the raw material of personality that is sculpted into personality by experiences in the world.

We have all heard that bad kids come from bad parents and there are several ways to be a bad parent. And children who are parented strictly end up fighting with parents and carrying a chip on their shoulder. A narcissistic parent will get excited about their childs achievements for only 2 reasons.

Such pressures can lead to sleep deprivation eating disorders anxiety low self-esteem and poor academic performance he added. Physical exertion confrontations on the playground competitions with real winners. Strict parents do not value their childrens opinion.

Markham says the strict parent deprives children of the opportunity to learn self-discipline because all control and decisions come from the parent. The consequences of having strict parents. Parents use threats that create complexes in children.

Helicopter parents that seek to shield their children from all forms of adversity are not doing them any favors. You Dont Allow for Natural Consequences. When a parent shows a child less respect than they do to others they unconsciously communicate a message that this is how they deserve to be treated and that the disrespect their parent is showing them is an acceptable form of behavior.

Sometimes parents just remind children that theres a huge distance between them and their cherished goals. Parenting also becomes much harder for these parents because their kids lose interest in pleasing them and become much more difficult to manage. Threats make the other person believe I am not good enough therefore punishment is the only answer my parents have.

Compliance because of threats is a very short term. While some structure is essential its also important for kids to have free time. Sadly many parents are unaware of the power that they hold over their children.

At school with friends and siblings and perhaps most of all by their parents. They tend to change their way of thinking. Laura Markham a clinical psychologist and author of Peaceful Parent Happy Kids strict parenting can actually create behavior problems.

Children of authoritarian families may develop. Many children with strict parents run from activity to activity with little downtime. Many parents believe that they are only guiding and helping their child when in fact they are causing harm instead.

There is an old saying that the road to hell is paved with good intentions. Strict parents often go to great lengths to avoid letting a child make a mistake. Successful children guarantee a better life for the parents.

A childs attitude views goals and perspective depend on what he or she learns from their parents. Let us now take a look at the adverse effects of strict parenting. A human doesnt enter into the world with a fully formed personality springing forth from their genes.

They enjoy boasting about their success so that others envy them. Therefore it may not be worthwhile at all. They are snubbed for voicing their ideas or concerns.

This in the end will cause young people that have been victimized by overprotective parents to crumble under the difficult situations that life has to offer during the maturing processThe damage. The self-control they learn as children is typically carried into adulthood. As they get older they look for love in all the wrong places.